Top 100 Mom Blogs of 2012

Oh no! I just found this list from Babble on the best Mom Blogs of 2012. It is addictive. I can’t spend my morning reading blogs! I’ve got a startup to run! But they suck you in. I think what I will do is look at a few of them every day.More things to read. I just posted the NYT book list that I haven’t read most of. Having kids does not help you get a lot of reading done. Then there is the whole debate on fact or fiction. With my startup I’ve been concentrating on non-fiction. Loads to learn. And now all of these fun blogs. Uff….Well, I’ll share these that I looked at before starting this post. I think it is best to start at the about page. Makes me think I’d better improve mine!
Dooce http://dooce.com/about/This woman has blogged about her entire adult life!
A Cup of Jo http://joannagoddard.blogspot.com.es/p/about-me.htmlJoanna writes about life in NYC and she is also a mom. I am surprised and intrigued that she still uses the blogspot….
I’m just going to repost her post here because I thought it was great and it is easier then clicking back and forth between blogs:

Motherhood Mondays: How to talk to little girls

This Saturday, Toby and I were riding the bus downtown, when a six-year-old girl sat down next to us. She was wearing a white dress and sparkly red flats, and her blonde hair was twisted into a braid. My first instinct was to compliment her hairstyle, but I stopped myself…

I had just read the GREAT article How to Talk to Little Girls by Lisa Bloom, which encourages adults to ask little girls about ideas and books, instead of complimenting their looks. “Teaching girls that their appearance is the first thing you notice tells them that looks are more important than anything,” says Bloom. “I always bite my tongue when I meet little girls, restraining myself from my first impulse, which is to tell them how darn cute/ pretty/ beautiful/ well-dressed/ well-manicured/ well-coiffed they are…It’s our culture’s standard talking-to-little-girls icebreaker, isn’t it?”

(It’s true! It’s really easy and almost instinctive to compliment a little girl’s appearance, don’t you think?)

“Clothes or hair or bodies…it’s surprising how hard it is to stay away from those topics with little girls, but I’m stubborn,” Bloom writes. “Try this the next time you meet a little girl [ask her what she’s reading]. She may be surprised and unsure at first, because few ask her about her mind, but be patient and stick with it…Model for her what a thinking woman says and does.”

So, instead of telling the girl on the bus how much I liked her hair, I went ahead and asked her what books she liked. She told me that her mom was reading The Little House in the Prairieto her at night, and that they read one chapter per night, unless it was a long chapter, in which case they read half. We talked about books for five bus stops (that’s a long time in midtown traffic!) and then I asked her what she had for breakfast. “Pancakes,” she said. I told her that I loved pancakes with lemon and sugar, and her mom looked up and said, “That’s how I ate them growing up in Germany.” And then the little girl told me how she had gone on an airplane (!) to Germany earlier that summer and how she had seen a fox during her trip and how her grandparents took to her swimming and to the movies, where you could eat pizza in your seats.

I was thrilled by our conversation! (Although Toby fell asleep:) It was so much more interesting than braids.

Lisa Bloom’s advice to have real conversations with little girls (and boys!) is wonderful. (Think: “Have you been swimming this summer?” “Do you like animals?” “Do you know any jokes?”) Changing the conversation topic is such a seemingly small thing, but it can make a profound difference, don’t you think?

What’s your take? Do you instinctively compliment little girls’ looks, too? What else do you talk about with little girls? Do you remember having smart conversations with adults when you were little? Do you have any young girls in your life to at the moment, or do you have a daughter? Will you take Lisa Bloom’s pledge, too? (Think how amazing it would be if we all did this from now on!) Do you think it’s important or not that big of a deal? I’m curious to hear your thoughts… xoxo


The Babble list of the Top 100 Mom Blogs

They make us laugh. They make us cry. And most importantly, they make us feel like we’ve got allies in this wonderfully weird world of parenting. Our annual salute to those who are brave enough to air their best and worst parenting moments includes blogosphere staples as well as newcomers. At Babble, we believe that all parents are in the business of raising the next generation together. We need each other; we need to feel connected to those who are in the trenches with us. Here are the top 100 moms — narrowed down with the help of our panelists — who remind us that we’re not alone. — Christina Couch

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Jenny Lawson of The Bloggess

Top Mom Bloggers of 2012

After running several scientific studies, we, and the two to three million other readers who regularly flock here, conclude that Jenny Lawson may actually be the funniest woman on earth. What you may not know is that she’s among the most generous too. In addition to starting Twitter feuds with William Shatner,baiting an unassuming PETA employee, and adding to her impressive taxidermy collection, this mom of one is also responsible for starting a worldwide movement that encourages readers to say “I’m worth it”and for mobilizing her audience to give $43,000 to strangers from the internet who were short on Christmas cash. Lawson has also been outspoken about her struggles with anxiety, depression, self-harm and the battle to find joy and humor through life’s crap, helping fellow moms feel they’re not alone.

Babble announces the top 100 mom blogs of 2012! | Babble.

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About CoffeeWithKath

Passionate about Technology in Education and how it can make a difference in the lives of students with Dyslexia. Founder of @ForDyslexia. Mom of twins. Juggling entrepreneurship and kids.

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